It was hot, but I still decided to wear pants, instead of shorts. My dad, being my dad, got mad at me. I don’t know why, but he always gets mad at me when I wear clothes you wouldn’t normally wear in hot days. That’s stupid, I mean why would you even get mad at that?
Anyway, I got mad when he yelled at me, and I said “Why are you so mad?” He said he wasn’t, and then suddenly my mom just yelled at me, saying how stupid I was. I don’t remember what I did to even tick her off. And I think she said I was a waste of space.
Anyway, I got mad, so I just went downstairs, and I heard my dad say: “Your always playing alone, feels great huh?” There was sarcasm dripping from his voice, I didn’t reply, so I kept heading to my room, and I heard my mom say I was stupid again.
My parents left for a BBQ a few minutes later, leaving me alone.
Until, my dad called me. I knew he was going to just yell at me, but I picked it up anyway.
He started yelling as I thought, about if I let my dogs go outside to do business.
You see, what I do everyday, is let my dogs outside once a day, they are really small dogs, like maybe a foot wide, and half a foot tall, so they don’t eat much, and thus they don’t need to go outside much.
Anyway, I always let them out at 6:30 PM each night, I do it at that time because the sprinklers go off at 7:10, so it’s sort of a reminder.
It was 5:30 when he called me, and he yelled at me for not letting my dogs out. I even explained to him, that I always let the dogs out at 6:30, and he knew that! But he just yelled at me, and threatened to give away my dogs.
You see, my parents are never home, so they assume I never take care of my dogs. And they threaten to give away my dogs all the time. And they are serious. I remember when my youngest dog died, it was a really sad moment for me, and typically, I cried. My dad called laughed and said his sons should not cry, but I couldn’t help it, and it didn’t help much when he put my dog, in a used trash bag, and THREW HIM AWAY. That obviously proves that he does not care if my dogs are given away or not.
Anyway, sorry about that. Anyway, he also told me to pick up the business my dogs leave behind. I know it wasn’t a good time to tick him off even more, so I quickly prepared to do it. Until my dad called again. This time, it was me who was ticked off. He was obviously calling to see if I was even doing it or not. He always does that.
So I picked up, and QUIETLY said “I’m doing it”. Granted, it wasn’t exactly the best way to answer, but he deserved it. But turns out, it didn’t help at all. He yelled at me, in a even louder voice. Normally, I would stay quiet, but he went over the line this time.
You see, I like to be on the computer a lot. I know that’s not healthy, and I realize it myself. But my parents think I’m some sort of loner because of that. I have friends, but they live pretty far away from me, so I can’t really go over to my friends whenever I like. Now that that part is explained, you’ll see why my dad got so mad at me.
He yelled at me, saying how I was pathetic, and didn’t have any friends. Because my computer was my only friend, which wasn’t true on a side note. Anyway, he blamed my computer for be not having any friends, and said i was a loser. He also said this while cussing a lot, cusses that you would normally see in a M rated game, and a R rated movie.
He even threatened to kick me out of the house. I only have about 80$, so I knew living by myself would be a hard task. And after this, he asked /yelled “You don’t have any friends do you?!” He said it as a statement rather than a question. I didn’t want him to get any more mad, so I agreed.
But then…he compared me to my brother. My brother is basically one of the very popular people at my school, while I’m more of a nerd. We’re practically from different worlds. But he still acts like a good brother.
Anyway, he asked if I had any friends like my brother, I agreed again, not wanting my dad to get angry even more.
He finally said. “Why can’t you be more like him?”
Even though my brother was a good brother, I hated being compared to him.
I snapped, I really wanted to tell him off, but I didn’t. I didn’t even reply, he cussed even more at this, and eventually hung up.
I really hate him right now.
Normally, I would forgive him, but he took it over the line this time. I don’t know if I should forgive him. Usually, by the next day, he’ll be normal, but even knowing that, I’m not sure if I should forgive him.
This happened quite a while ago, so I can’t remember it clearly. So some of the facts I put above, were probably not true, but you have my word that about 80% of it, is true.
What do you guys think? I can’t even go to my mom because she’s mad at me too.
Thank you for reading. And be serious, this is kind of a serious moment for me.
Hm, I didn’t mean for this to be over 1 K words, sorry if it bored you.
Cya.
My parents ARE bad tempered.
All my other relatives, my parents are mad at, or not talking to them at the moment.
As to they are never home, that’s cause they are talking from morning to night.
My mom has one job, and my dad has two. He works from 9AM-5PM, and 6PM-2-4AM.
He’s probably stressed out from work, but still…I don’t know.
And me and my brother TOTALLY talk to each other, but yo be honest, I hate talking about intense things like that, so I think it’d be best to keep it to myself.
Dale F, I sound like your 19 year old son?
I’m only 14. Haha
My dad just called back, and he seems to be better.
But I’m still mad at him, he’s trying to repair what happened, but I’m not sure if I should try as well.
